“Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with the things you have, for He has said, “I will never leave you or forsake you.” Hebrews 13:5
There are times in life when we are just plain jealous. Maybe someone you know just bought a brand-new house, while you’ve been spending your days trying to figure out how to re-arrange your dated family room furniture to make it seem “fresh”. Or, you are in a really difficult marriage and it seems everyone you know is happy and content in theirs. Maybe its a simple thing, like an extremely flattering scarf that your bestie just showed up at your door wearing, and that morning, no matter how much you tried you were just not able to find anything to wear that you liked.
Or that darn Athleta model that is looking up at you from your pile of mail (how many hours DOES she work out anyway??)
Lately, I’ve been coveting time. I find myself thinking about the lovely women in my life who seem to have balance, and margin–two things that have been greatly lacking in my world for a few years.
I’ve also been pining after new dining room chairs, which after my husband sat in one of our old ones over Thanksgiving and it literally collapsed under him, I excitedly said, “Sit on the other ones now!” hoping the rest of the 12-year-old rustic cabin/mountain/bear/pine tree chairs would fall like dominoes (OK, I’m exaggerating, no bears.).
What do you long for? What feels missing?
Jesus came to fill whatever empty spaces we have in our life. Relationally, materially, spiritually. He is the only one who satisfies our thirst. When the woman at the well drew water for Jesus,
13 Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” John 4:13-14
I always struggled a bit with this passage–how does that relate to my dining room chairs? But actually, it does. I know that the more I belong to my heavenly father, the more I know him and seek him in my daily life, the less important my perceived material lack (which truly, I lack for nothing) becomes. Jesus gives us perspective, as he did with the woman at the well. She was focused on her relational failures (most likely) and her physical thirst, and Jesus gave her hope, which flows eternal when we are in a relationship with Him. In other words, when the voice of my “wants” in life is turned down, and I turn up the voice of God, I feel content. I know what I need to pine after and desire, and that is the desire of His heart:
To Live Justly,
To Love Mercy,
To Walk Humbly With Him
I did get new dining room chairs, by the way, after I worked hard the last few months at my business and saved up some money, and because my kind husband (who does not give a lick about dining room chairs) gave his blessing on the purchase. I hold them lightly, however, and know that they only matter when the table is filled with friends and family, giving thanks to God, sharing a meal, and finding joy in each other.
Let’s look to God for perspective, contentment, and peace. It is overflowing for those who seek Him.